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Sunday, October 19, 2008

calvin the coolist kid ever


CALVIN HANSEN WAS THE COOLIST KID EVER. HE WAS AND STILL IS ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS EVER I AM REALLY GOING TO MISS HIM. EVER SINCE SIXTH GRADE HE HAS BEEN ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS. IN SIXTH GRADE I DIDN'T REALLY HAVE MANY FRIENDS BUT CALVIN CHANGED THAT. HE WAS IN MY ENGLISH CLASS WHEN I FIRST MET HIM AND HE WAS IMMEDIATELY MY BEST FRIEND. AND SINCE I WAS HIS FRIEND I MET A COUPLE OF HIS FRIENDS AND THEY LATER BECAME MY FRIENDS TOO. THEN IN SEVENTH GRADE WE WERE STILL GOOD FRIENDS BUT HE WASN'T MY BEST FRIEND. WELL I GUESS THAT I REALLY DIDN'T HAVE A BEST FRIEND TILL FORTH TERM. ALL OF MY FRIENDS WERE HIS FRIENDS TOO SO IT ALL OF US WERE LIKE BEST FRIENDS. NOT ONE OF US HAD A SINGLE BEST FRIEND. AT THE END OF SEVENTH GRADE YEAR THE DAYS GOT CLOSER TO MY BIRTH DAY. I CHOSE TO HAVE MY PARTY ON THE LAST DAY OF SCHOOL SO THAT I COULD HAVE A COUPLE OF FRIENDS OVER TO HAVE PIZZA AND A LATE NIGHT. CALVIN VOLENTEERED TO COME OVER AN HOUR OR TWO EARLY TO HELP SET UP. SO WE LET HIM SINCE WE COULDN'T GO GET HIM BECAUSE OTHERS WERE COMING TOO. THEN IN EIGHTH GRADE ME AND CALVIN JUST DIDN'T TALK AS MUCH BECAUSE WE DIDN'T HAVE ANY CLASSES TOGETHER. BUT WE STILL FOUND TIME FOR IT. ALTHOUGH WE HAD THE SAME LUNCH HE HAD LUNCH WORK SO BY THE TIME HE WAS EATING I WAS LONG GONE. SO I HARDLY SAW HIM THIS YEAR BUT WE WERE STILL DANG GOOD FRIENDS. THE DAY I FOUND OUT THAT HE HAD PASSED AWAY WAS ONE OF THE WORST DAYS OF MY LIFE SO FAR. I COULDN'T BELIEVE IT. I CALLED HIS PHONE PROBABLY TWENTY TIMES WITH NO ANSWER. THE NEXT DAY I CALLED HIM ABOUT A MILLION MORE TIMES HOPING HE WOULD ANSWER BUT KNOWING HE WOULDN'T. THAT REALLY SUCKED. CALVIN WAS SO COOL IF HE WANTED SOMEONE TO BE HIS FRIEND THE NEXT DAY THEY WERE AT HIS HOUSE. JUST THE KIND OF PERSON HE WAS MADE EVERY PERSON NORMAL OR NOT JUST LOVE HIM. HE NEVER DID ANYTHING TO MAKE ME MAD. I WILL REALLY MISS HIM AND I WILL NEVER FORGET HIM. I WILL TELL EVERYONE I KNOW ABOUT HOW GOOD OF A PERSON HE WAS. IF THE HANSEN FAMILY NEEDS ANYTHING JUST CALL.
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4 comments:

Kadee said...

Wow that really means a lot to me!! And I can tell that he was very important to you too!! I'm going to miss him too!! And the same thing happened to me too!! He never answered when I called him. Then I found out what happened and I was so so so so sad!! Lots of people are really going to miss him. But we will see him again and just know that he is in a better place!!

Deb O said...

TJ-IM SO GLAD YOU AND CALVIN WERE FRIENDS. YOU WERE SO LUCKY TO HAVE EACH OTHER. I CAN ONLY IMAGINE WHAT YOU ARE FEELING RIGHT NOW. LIFE CAN BE REALLY HARD SOMETIMES. I GUESS THIS IS A GOOD REMINDER TO US ALL THAT WE MUST APPRECIATE EACH AND EVERY DAY WE HAVE TO LET THOSE WE LOVE KNOW HOW WE FEEL-WHETHER THROUGH OUR ACTIONS OR OUR WORDS. THANKS FOR BEING SUCH A GOOD KID TJ.LOVE, GRANDMA

Alys n Kin said...

TJ this post is amazing and you are such a great friend and others are lucky to call you that. I'm sorry you had to go through this at such a young age. I will be thinking about you as you go to this wonderful boys funeral. Love Alys

kinley said...

hey tj its kinley i have a blog now